In my experience, women with kids just want a chance to be able to relax and be a woman. Giving birth makes them insecure and a chance to go out and be sexy goes a long way, take it a bit slow, dont floss too much. Just give her a few comments here and there just to make her relax and feel good, just going out and meeting someone knew without the stress of being home will do a lot, relax and let it flow naturally :)! Often it means bj's and sex with no sleep overs. If they are older just walk up to them (even if you are a nerd, fat etc). These girls are the least pickiest I promise!
if you're an asshole you can abuse the insecurity she has, but that's another entry
speaking of milfs, this isn't one but the Ass is likee 2 babiez